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Saturday/Sunday 20
July 2002
The overnight stay with
Chinese students families. Please scroll down for different
viewpoints.....
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Jemma’s
View
This was the
part of the trip I was looking forward to the most as I felt it
would be the most beneficial experience overall.
When I met
‘Shelly’ my partner we planned a number of activities that we
wanted to do during my visit. I was surprised that the family were
able to afford a driver who picked us up from the Qilu Hotel. He
took us on a tour of the city pointing out many of the sites. The
Central Park Square appealed to me most because of its two main
features (the two symbols of Jinan; the open lotus flower and the
blue and spherical sculpture that stood for the strength and unity
of the people of the city.
We visited a
large botanical park near Shelly’s home that contained many
unusual plants. Shelly could not believe that I found the experience
interesting and kept apologising for making me bored bored.
Her mother
was with us all afternoon, but I did not meet her father who was in
America on business (The students we met were not ‘ordinary’
Chinese!). He works for the Jinan government. Shelly’s parents’
share their apartment with her grandparent’s. I met them briefly
in the evening as they were anxious to meet me. I wanted to find out
about their experiences during the 1949 Revolution and afterwards,
but there was not time.
We ate at
McDonalds in the evening but the mother was worried that I had not
eaten enough. The truth was I had eaten too much and could not fit
any more in!
I also
visited the hospital where her mother works. It deals mainly with
party officials and businessmen. It was very posh and it was
interesting to compare it with Britain. Shelly’s mother was very
interested to know more about our system of healthcare.
We went to
the top of the hospital and were able to see the golden Buddha by
1000 Buddha mountain
We exchanged
gifts in the evening and I showed them both photographs of everybody
and everything back home. They were very, very interested. Her
mother was amazed at the size of our house, the fact that I drove
and that were had more than one car. Also having two brothers and a
sister was cause for comment, I suppose because they stick to the
Chinese one child policy, as do most people in Jinan. We started to
communicated without Shelly translating which I was surprised at.
We had an
early night (9.30!) as we were very tired from the day. Shelly told
me that we would be going to a Brewery in the morning as I had been
invited there. It had been built in 1975 and was the only beer
factory in Jinan. The beer was served at our first banquet on
Friday, The manager told me that it was a very high quality beer.
The factory employed over 1000 people.
After this I
went shopping and bought a traditional Chinese dress. Shelly’s
mother bargained the price down from 200 to 100 Yuan (8 pounds). I
thought this was very cheap! We then went to KFC for dinner.
We then went
home for a rest and then set about climbing 1000 Buddha Mountain. It
was very interesting; inside a cave was more than 2800 different
statues of Buddha. One was 28 m long. When Buddha died he was lying
down with his feet resting on the heads of his four pupils
Buddha’s
lined the route of the path up the mountain, each one different. We
saw the big Golden Buddha, he is shown as always happy and smiling.
This is my favorite depiction of Buddha.
It seems that
everyone in China wants to be your friend and will do anything to
stay in contact. We have already started to arrange our next visits
to see each other. Having exchanged addresses we can keep in
contact.
I was invited
out for dinner but wanted to spend my last meal with Shelly’s
family at home. It was a happy occasion, but the hardest part of the
weekend was saying goodbye, though it is really only farewell for
now.
Jemma
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Natasha’s
View
At 7.30 on Saturday morning, armed with a back-pack crammed with
my needs for the week-end I made my way to meet my student from the
JFLS
Doris (Her English name – all the Chinese English students have
them) walked towards me and we continued from where we had left off
a few days earlier. Her English was superb and I felt less nervous
about spending the whole week-end at her house. Her father was also
there to meet me and took my back-pack to the waiting taxi while
Doris and I went to the local museum. We then went to the city
centre by bus (an interesting experience in itself) and did some
SHOPPING! She also showed me some landmarks such as the best
fountain in the world; well I thought so anyway> The water jets
moved in time with the music and the spray was really refreshing in
the fierce heat.
I then went to Doris’s home, which was an apartment on the
fourth floor. He father greeted me and gave me a pair of flip-flops
to wear around the house. Her father had already prepared a snack of
noodles – the biggest bowl ever! The most memorable part of the
stay was all the food. Even after the noodles I was encouraged to
eat fruit.
Dinner was very interesting. Doris told me that her father would
like me to experience a traditional Chinese dinner. He took us to a
tiny street restaurant where the food was as interesting as the
bathroom facilities! We also went out for breakfast the following
day and enjoyed eating from the street stalls. We then went SHOPPING
again which considering there are at least twelve large centres in
Jinan kept us very busy.
Lunch was in an authentic traditional Chinese McDonalds, but none
the less welcome.
At 7.00 I returned to the hotel after exchanging presents very
satisfied with my unique experience.
Natasha
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Eleanor’s
View
Today was the second day that I was with my Chinese family,
however the sickness that I had suffered the previous nigh persisted
so I was advised to return to the hotel. On arrival I was advised to
go to the hospital to be on the safe side after visiting the hotel
clinic. It was only a few minutes away and I was quickly checked in.
The doctor examined me and advised me to have a blood test which
involved me putting my arm through an open office window for the
procedure to occur. I am not good with injections and I promptly
fainted in the corridor. The nurses quickly came to the scene and
placed me on a bed. As I regained consciousness I realised I had
been put on a drip and my hand was throbbing. I then spent a few
more hours in hospital, revived as much by the take-out McDonalds as
by the saline drip!
In the evening I rested in the hotel room sharing the day’s
adventures with the rest of the party who had now returned from
their time with their host families. With a bruised hand and arm I
was not at my happiest!
Eleanor |